Man date

Oh, honestly. Has the idea of straight guys going out together for anything besides business or sports become so marginalized in popular culture that the Times feels it worthy of coverage? Apparently, it has. The Times runs an article on the “man date,” and includes this point:

Dinner with a friend has not always been so fraught. Before women were considered men’s equals, some gender historians say, men routinely confided in and sought advice from one another in ways they did not do with women, even their wives. Then, these scholars say, two things changed during the last century: an increased public awareness of homosexuality created a stigma around male intimacy, and at the same time women began encroaching on traditionally male spheres, causing men to become more defensive about notions of masculinity.

Or as Jon puts it, we’re just better.

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we are better. such a burden, no?

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